i think its time for me to interfere into what's happening around my mom and someone. ya i know you might be saying that "No need to interfere into adult's issue". But HELLO, its like every year, this issue or whatever it is will continue to repeat again and again. AND this is troubling my family and mom's health. i don't care if you want to say my family are poor, no morale, not appreciative etc to everyone. i don't care about that, because what i know and what i believe is that Allah will witness every single thing that we do/say, and only Allah will weigh our good deeds and what's not. but i will not and cannot tolerate issues when its relating with my late dad.

how Insensitive you are with your words to my family? how can you say about my mom being alone, my mom being husband-less? and the person you are saying to is your own sister (well, maybe you don't even regard her as one, do you?)? i am very sorry to say this in public.

i find this is a very sensitive issue, especially when it comes about things that relates with my late dad. YOU NEVER GO THROUGH WHAT I AND MY MOM GG THROUGH RIGHT NOW. so its easy for you to say all this without even THINKING how the other party will feel. E.g "da la dia tak de suami, tak kenang budi, etc etc" Hey, i am not dead. i care for my mom, and i care for her feelings as well. i am not going to ignore this issue, i will stand by mom's side.

Your husband is still here, your father is still here. so you will never know how the feeling is when you're at loss. you can be snobbish / arrogant as what you are, and you can repeat whatever you want to say about us being unappreciative, rude etc to anyone, to the whole world. we don't care seriously. sometimes i wonder if the good things that you did to my family is consider sincerity or maybe there are other things that you want? I'm sorry if this might hurt you and your family's feeling, because I am insensitive with my words too.

YOU don't even think that since my dad is no longer here, you can jolly well treat my mom like what you want. Her children are still here, and even if we're not, Allah is witnessing every single thing that you, I and others are doing. No need to remember about my family, just remember that whatever you do before, you will get what you suppose to be getting back. Langit tak selalunya cerah.

So well, I really hope that you will leave my mom, my family alone (ya i know you will be calling us or whatsoever, so numb with it serious shit). just finish off the things that is still undone and after that, we will leave at our own space. If the good things that your family did to us is sincere, I will really like to thank you on behalf of my family.